Building Strong Bonds: Why Conversations with Children Matter - Excelled Montessori Plus

Building Strong Bonds: Why Conversations with Children Matter

As parents and caregivers, we often talk to our children without realizing the incredible impact our conversations can have on their development. From the earliest moments of life, children are listening, learning, and building connections through the power of conversation. In this blog, we’ll explore why conversations with children are so essential for building strong bonds and supporting their growth and development.

Language Development

From the time they are born, children are soaking up language like a sponge. They listen to the sounds and rhythms of our voices, and over time, they begin to mimic the words and phrases they hear. Through conversations with adults and other children, they learn new words, sentence structures, and communication skills. They also learn the social nuances of language, such as when it’s appropriate to interrupt and how to take turns in a conversation.

Connection and Trust

When we engage in regular conversations with children, we help build a bond of trust and connection. Children who feel heard and understood are more likely to develop positive relationships with the adults in their lives. When children share their thoughts and feelings, it helps them feel validated and supported. This, in turn, can strengthen the bond between the child and the caregiver, leading to a more secure attachment.

Emotional Regulation

Conversations with children can also help them develop emotional regulation skills. Talking to an adult can help children feel calmer and more in control when they are upset. Conversations can help children learn how to express their emotions in a healthy way, such as using “I” statements and talking about their feelings instead of acting out.


Conversations with children can also help them develop problem-solving skills. By discussing a problem with an adult or another child, children can learn how to work through issues in a constructive way. Conversations can help children develop critical thinking skills, such as brainstorming solutions and considering different perspectives.

Creativity and Imagination

Conversations with children can also inspire creativity and imagination. Children can explore different ideas and scenarios by engaging in imaginative play and storytelling. Conversations can also encourage children to ask questions and explore the world around them, which can fuel their curiosity and creativity.

In conclusion, conversations with children are essential for building strong bonds and supporting their growth and development. By providing opportunities for communication, adults can help children build their language and social skills, develop emotional regulation, and foster their creativity and imagination. So, take the time to talk to your children, ask them questions, listen to their stories, and watch as they blossom into confident, curious, and creative individuals.

The interplay between parents and children ignites the brain and boosts its response to language, spurring lasting literacy skills. This article talks about the importance of talking to your children and brain development.

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Montessori Preschool Daycare

Montessori Preschool Daycare

Montessori Preschool Daycare

At Excelled Montessori Preschool Daycare our goal is to grow lifelong learners who have the knowledge, creativity, and the 21st-century learning skills to excel in a world that is constantly changing. At ExcellED Montessori Plus, we take the Montessori model a step further by blending other project-based and team-based approaches like Reggio Emilia to develop the next generation of leaders. Our whole-child approach to learning includes creating a supportive environment and community where parents, children, and educators are viewed as partners throughout the learning process.

All children do not learn the same way and at the same pace. At ExcellED Schools, our goal is to leverage research-based instructional strategies to personalize learning for each student based on their learning styles, needs, and pace. Students play an essential role in their learning, and our goal is to provide them with age-appropriate developmental tools and a safe environment.

Jana Roberson: Ms. Jana Roberson holds her Montessori Certification from Southwestern Montessori Training Center and has been a Lead Montessori Guide for 15 years. She takes pride in maintaining a safe and peaceful classroom environment that allows her to guide children in their academic journey. Ms. Roberson and her family relocated to the San Antonio area in 2018. She is looking forward to meeting and getting to know you and your family as well as enriching the lives of your children.

Ms. Fabiola Montoya: Ms. Fabiola Montoya holds her Bachelor degree in Business from Monterrey Institute of Technology as well as her Early Childhood Education Certificate and Lower Elementary Certificate from North American Montessori Center. She has been a Per-Primary Lead Guide for 5 years and an Elementary School Substitute for 2 years. She is a believer in the Montessori methods and way of life. She is looking forward to being a part of a great community of loving educators and parents.

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